Hi,
welcome to the forum.
They are all so different that I don't have a one answer fits all.
The commonality is that they are all loved and treated with respect. They are all treated as individuals. Some are treated as partners, where with others I feel a parental responsibility for them.
My approach in caring for them is that if by some miracle they all awoke and could suddenly live anywhere that they chose I would hope that non of them would choose to live anywhere but here.
How do I dress them? Again, it all depends on the girl. I tend to think along the limnes of what music would she like to listen to and dress then according to their musical tastes.... Quite strangely I don't actively dislike any of their musical tastes
Hope that you have fun here Rod.
All thge best,
Shamus.