I too am autistic and after my ex did a total number on me, then the pandemic kicked in, I needed that companionship too.
Both my girls are from Lucid and are also Allure aka 6Ye N97's. Like you they arrived within a day or two after purchase Elenas body is an Irontech (Racy) brown, which Adam very kindly helped us collect from Lucids warehouse when I got into a complete meltdown over a huge mistake I made.
Lucid and Neodoll are the same company, they have a warehouse near Oxford and one in Germany.
Glad all went well for you and you got your perfect companion.