Smaller does not necessarily equate to lighter.
On eof the lightest dolls that you will find is the SM 155D as 24kg (26kg with head). I've had one for years and bought a second from Lucid last chistmas... They call them Soulmate but she is actually an SM (ShangMei).
Good quality TPE, decent skeleton (although, not an Irontech level skeleton). Standard M16 head connector and in white which is the universal skin tone so heads from many manufacturers are interchangable.
The hands of my first were poor but the second one they are much improved. The TPE is smooth, cool and built to last. That I have a lot of girls (not as many as Tommo) and still bought a second one of these (and would buy a third) probably says a lot.
Here's a link:
https://www.lucidtoys.com/collection...155cm-w_158510
or
https://www.lucidtoys.com/collection...55cm-wh_158509
Light, robust, good price, well respected brand. And if its anything, a surprising number of pictures that I have taken with my girls they are wearing that body, so photogenic as well.
First dolls bing put up for sale immediately tend primarily to be due to weight. My impression that few who buy a first girl over 40kg stick with this. Even 30kg can come as a shock but around that weight your body does adapt elatively quickly to them.
Second reason is that some people cannot see the girl, only a sex doll. I know that sounds strange but ask yourself. When looking at the marketing are you not looking for the girl who looks most like that she walked onto set and sat there. When they arrive there can be some disappointment where people at first cannot see that in the girl who arrives and they decide that they cannot take to this. I was lucky on that in that my first was a WM godess. Back in 2014 I bought a sex doll... She's still a virgin! First night I just lay there looking at her expeting to catch her breathing. If you are lucky enough to find that your girl won't see the for sale section.
Third reason is adverse reaction to TPE... Which isn't really. TPE itself is inate but the oil that it is mixed with varies in quality. Another reason that I try to guide people towards the named brands such as SM, 6YE, JY, Irontech, etc. Thats not saying that entry level dolls are bad. Many of them are just as good quality as the main brands. Its just the guarantee of quality rather than the hope for it that differentiates.
Take a serious look at that SM 155D. I do not think that you would be disappointed by her as a first girl. She's not small but she is skinny and light with long arms that are capable of folding behind your neck. Thats not usual.
HTH,
Shamus.