Gonna weigh in here again.
I say just post them and if you get any feedback, then deal with it, it's not likely to cause anyone serious distress really, but by the same token if they are around a quick note to them asking is simple enough.
I don't have problems seeing Caroline (Tilly) in pics, I actually find it rather nice to see that she was loved enough to be photographed and now still remembered fondly, to me that is part of what makes her special, but that's just me.
Fair game for non active dolls or members? I say yes.
Pete.
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